absolutly NOT like RTV gasket maker

If you look in your haynes it gives you a chrylser part number, but I just got the permatex anaerobic gasket maker from autozone. I think a huge tube was less than $10.

When you get ready to put your bearing cap back in, with the bottom part of the seal in it, put the anaerobic gasket maker on the lower seal end tabs. Make sure not to get any on the lip of the seal. install and torque

Anaerobic means it will cure without "air" I assume something about the bearing cap prevents enough air from contacting the gasket maker, thus preventing regular RTV from curing properly.

For your oil pan just use the regular stuff