Ok so you have 2 5 pin relays and a DTSP switch.



This is the way my 5 pin is wired on my kc light harness. The 2 red wires go to the lights the yellow is power and the green is to the switch and then there is a white that runs from the battery to the switch for power

So
30=yellow
87a=red- to one light
87B=red- to the other light
86= to switch
85=ground

So the green and white wires are fused and the white wire would go to one side of the switch and the green to the other
Now on a double pole single throw you would put both white wires on the same pole of the switch. And the green on the opposite.

 

Never mind on the last post

 

I got it figured out. I had to splice my 12V run wire into one of my cigarette lighter wires. Somehow I totally skipped the 12V run wire the first time. Thanks everyone for the help!