Lack of Common Courtesy?
Senior Member
Joined: Dec 2010
Posts: 888
Likes: 2
From: Wekiva, FL
Year: 99 sport
Model: Cherokee
Engine: 4.0 i6
You are correct many people have lost all courtesy when dealin with anyone.
However, wether it be holding a door for someone or lending a helping hand to a stranger, I really don't care if they say thank you or stay quiet.
At the end of the day I did this kind gesture for me not for the person. I did this kind gesture because I think its the right thing to do.
I feel like you can't let people change how you are because they don't appreciate you. Is it nice, of course does it happen often when someone says thank you, not really. I will continue to hold doors, help, be nice because I like it and it fits me. Besides, if we stop there won't be anyone left.
However, wether it be holding a door for someone or lending a helping hand to a stranger, I really don't care if they say thank you or stay quiet.
At the end of the day I did this kind gesture for me not for the person. I did this kind gesture because I think its the right thing to do.
I feel like you can't let people change how you are because they don't appreciate you. Is it nice, of course does it happen often when someone says thank you, not really. I will continue to hold doors, help, be nice because I like it and it fits me. Besides, if we stop there won't be anyone left.
Senior Member
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 641
Likes: 1
From: Anderson, SC
Year: 1999
Model: Cherokee
Engine: 4.0
You are correct many people have lost all courtesy when dealin with anyone.
However, wether it be holding a door for someone or lending a helping hand to a stranger, I really don't care if they say thank you or stay quiet.
At the end of the day I did this kind gesture for me not for the person. I did this kind gesture because I think its the right thing to do.
I feel like you can't let people change how you are because they don't appreciate you. Is it nice, of course does it happen often when someone says thank you, not really. I will continue to hold doors, help, be nice because I like it and it fits me. Besides, if we stop there won't be anyone left.
However, wether it be holding a door for someone or lending a helping hand to a stranger, I really don't care if they say thank you or stay quiet.
At the end of the day I did this kind gesture for me not for the person. I did this kind gesture because I think its the right thing to do.
I feel like you can't let people change how you are because they don't appreciate you. Is it nice, of course does it happen often when someone says thank you, not really. I will continue to hold doors, help, be nice because I like it and it fits me. Besides, if we stop there won't be anyone left.
CF Veteran
Joined: Jul 2013
Posts: 7,554
Likes: 17
From: Monett, MO.
Year: 1999
Model: Cherokee
Engine: 4.0
Yes the internet and Text Messaging have almost destroyed social skills and even carrying on a conversation with others. Many have difficulty with trying to convey an idea or problem much less spell or grammar as we see here everyday. Its very sad that our tax dollars go to schools which produce this, because the government says they have to.
Senior Member
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 641
Likes: 1
From: Anderson, SC
Year: 1999
Model: Cherokee
Engine: 4.0
I answered a guy's (easy) question on here yesterday and he didn't even acknowledge my existence. I don't expect him to pay pal me anything but a simple thanks would have sufficed.
Yes the internet and Text Messaging have almost destroyed social skills and even carrying on a conversation with others. Many have difficulty with trying to convey an idea or problem much less spell or grammar as we see here everyday. Its very sad that our tax dollars go to schools which produce this, because the government says they have to.

Its the same reason people were ****ty in the 30s, the 50s, the 70s, the 90s, and now. Their parents teach them values and most of what they learn.
Senior Member
Joined: Sep 2014
Posts: 896
Likes: 2
From: Phoenix, A-to-Z
Year: 1988
Model: Cherokee
Engine: 4.0
Edited because the situation I was writing about had nothing to do with this forum. An open rant, not aimed at anybody at all but myself.
Last edited by Crazy 8s; Apr 15, 2015 at 05:18 PM.
CF Veteran
Joined: Nov 2011
Posts: 7,387
Likes: 10
From: City of Trees, CA
Year: 93 2 door
Model: Cherokee
Engine: 4.0
I'm not so sure it's all bad. Every time I've been PM'd it's been by good people and it always ends up being a good conversation
gotta give some credit where credit is due, there's still plenty of good people out there
gotta give some credit where credit is due, there's still plenty of good people out there
::CF Moderator::
Joined: Aug 2011
Posts: 43,971
Likes: 1,579
From: Prescott, Az
Year: 1990
Model: Cherokee (XJ)
Engine: 4.0
Thread
Thread Starter
Forum
Replies
Last Post
ZJBeachRunnerGC
Stock Grand Cherokee Tech. All ZJ/WJ/WK Non-modified/stock questions go here!
18
Mar 10, 2021 05:52 PM
mattsmith
Stock XJ Cherokee Tech. All XJ Non-modified/stock questions go here
4
Oct 2, 2015 04:46 PM
RJSR
Stock Grand Cherokee Tech. All ZJ/WJ/WK Non-modified/stock questions go here!
3
Sep 30, 2015 06:59 PM
dshirk
Stock Grand Cherokee Tech. All ZJ/WJ/WK Non-modified/stock questions go here!
0
Sep 24, 2015 10:17 PM
Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)






