I got a new bumper from a jy that had the reinforcment brakets and spots for tow hooks. Works well. Just look around at the xj bumpers and keep ur eyes peeled for one that has the holes to mount tow hooks or a push bar

 

I got mine stuck in a snow bank without any recovery points and wrapped the bumper i plan on changing....i didnt mes it up at all, but i figured that was the safest bet....when you wrap an axle, you run the risk or tearing a brake line....been their, its not pretty