I want to get either the Rubicon express 3.5" super ride or super flex lift for my xj but im confused as to what the difference in what each will do for my xj. Will one limit flexing? Can you guys give me some pros and cons of each and let me no which lift you guys think is better? Id like to do some flexing when i lift my xj but mainly mudding and i just overall like the look of a lifted jeep better. Im new to this xj world so sorry if i sound like im clueless. Please help!