Basically it greatly improved after the trac bar and steering stabilizer but not completely, I'm almost thinking about putting the old stabilizer back in just to see if the new stabilizer really is masking the issue that much

 

I just wanted to let you know what worked for me to fix a similar problem. I was on a 3.5 in lift until recently I added a 1 in spacer and all hell broke loose. First I got a wobble at about 50 mph until 55mph. I balanced the tires and got an aligment, nothing. I swapped the left and right tires and all of a sudden the wobbling came at 55mph. Later I put the rear tires on the front and it wobbled almost immediatly. So what I did was started messing with toe in aligment after I read somwhere that lifted Jeeps on larger tires sometimes like the toe to be out by up to 3/8 in! So tahts what I did. I measured the lenght between the front of the tires and the rear and adjusted the tierod until the front of the tires was at about 1/2 in more then the rear of the tires. And sure enough the wobble is 100% gone. Not sure if that is the case with you but worth a try. My set up is 4.5in up front with 33 in tires and RC lower control arms.

 

I just got it alligned so I don't want to mess with the tie rod quiet yet but I am getting different tires so I will see if that makes any difference...if not have to take it from there, thanks for the input though.