So my transmission melted my reverse light wiring. was curious where to look to un hook from another xj or where is the reverse light wiring harness connected to? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

if your tranny melted the wires then your tranny should be destroyed. Sure the exaust wasint the culprit? can you post pics? My guess is the exaust. Take the wiring harness apart and install new wire from a autopart store and reroute them away from the exaust.