I read in another post about the 2004 not having a fan control relay or a second fan. It did explain about the power steering fluid driven fan how to check it out. My problem is borderline stupid. I found the three pin electrical connector behind the radiator on the passenger side that needs to be disconnected to perform the test. After removing the red "locking key" on the side of the connector, I can't for the life of me figure out where to push or pull to get the connector apart. Any help would be appreciated. Ron