Ok here's what happened. I had my jeep running good it is an84 jeep cherokee 2.5l gas auto 4x4. The starter solonoid went bad.i got a new one and it worked fine until it locked into stat mode. I turned the key on and off a couple times while it was still trying to start. By the time i unhooked the battery i heard this relay shorting out. i got another new solonoid and no start. I have searched the world for this part and its discontinued. No junk yards have it and I've been told i can't wire around it. The part number is 33001942. It is an anti diesel time delay relay. Please help im going crazy over this...

 

Found the part at napa AR314. The number 4 and 5 spades are switched though. Back on the trail again

 

wow this is crazy I had a problem with my 85 2.5L xj recently and hadn't been able to figure it out using my factory manual, finally borrowed a friends 84-01 Chilton and figured out right away with the wiring diagram that I had melting wires at a anti-diesel relay (unidentifiable until today) and the fusible links to the starter solenoid were melting out, which is explainable since my car had been more and more difficult to start.. after trying to figure this out for 4 weeks my mind is blown haha

so for this part you got (NAPA AR314) you said that spades 4 and 5 were switched. how did you fix this, is there a wiring trick or did you just install as is?
I am not sure if it is even the relay that is bad, but wires on one of the pigtails were melting out. do you know where i can find corresponding pigtails (1 with 3 wires for 3 spades, 1 with 2 wires for 2 spades) for this relay?