I finally got them in by using ratchet straps to move the axle where i needed it to be. It was way out of wack. I also tried a bunch of different ways to get the springs in, even with the control arms off and i still had to compress them. Regardless the kit i had came with new control arms, so i had to take them off anyway. But Thank you everyone who gave me advice, and some more knowledge. The amount of responses from people on this forum always amazes me, thanks guys.