I've been getting the "no bus" message, airbag light, and no gauges, in my 01 XJ fairly often. I've connected new grounds, cleaned terminals, checked continuity, replaced junction box fuse. . . pretty much everything I've seen posted that might be a cause. I was going to install the connector patch kit, but cannot find it anywhere. Is it possible to remove the female terminals from the plug, so they can be cleaned and possibly made to fit tighter?

Or does anybody have any other ideas?

Thanks for any help y'all can offer.