found out my ex-gf was cheating on me...fun stuff

drummerwookie · 10-27-2009, 08:54 PM

i just found out from a couple of my friends today, that she was cheating on me with my friends brother, the whole time we were going out...

my friends told her she needed to say something to me or they were going to, and thats why she broke up with me, was just to get outa of telling me....

well, for some reason, ive been curious about it...we broke up a while ago, but shes my friends gf's friend...

so most of the time when i hang out with my friend ans his GF, most of the time my ex is there too..i got on here a couple weeks ago for acting like a B$#@h towards me when all i was trying to do was be nice about things

then i found out that this weekend, she was talking to the girl that im interested in now, behind my back, lying to her about what kinda BF i was and all this...my friends kicked her out for saying what she did about me, and lucky for me, this other girl doesnt believe her anyways

well, i was nice enough to not say anything to her about that, i thought, well ill just not bring it up, but i told my friends i was done hanging around her and they understood and they said they didnt want to anyways for what she was saying about me..

so then i was over at their place today, and just had a feeling she cheated on me...so i asked them if they heard anything, and they told me the whole story..she cheated on me , yada, yada... and my friend was pissed at his brother bc it was with him she cheated...

so i wasnt going to let this go...i got on her for it, and before i even told her in knew about her cheating, she came out with it anyway bc she thought it was just going to piss me off since i started in on here...but when she found out i already knew, she got pissed off and started calling me a D@*k and all this other crap, and is threatening to beat my a@# the next time im over at my friends place...lol...all bc i know about her little adventures

i could not believe she would have the audassity to get pissed at me bc SHE cheated on me...talk about a screwed up person..and then she actually asked me who told me about it....

if it were the other way around, and i knew that she knew i was cheating on here, i sure as hell wouldnt have started chewing her out and then asking who told her...i woulda back peddled and hung up..lol..

anyways...just venting....i guess the next time i go to my friends house, either im going to have to worry about her wanting to fight me, bc i dont hit girls, not my style, or, have to worry about her hitting one of my jeeps with a base ball bat bc she knows how much i love my jeeps...all bc SHE cheated on ME...

and i also found out from my friend that she texted this other girl that im interested in and told her she was to good for me..lol...and not to date me..but she just replied back by saying shes a big girl and can make her own decisions..

one heck of a situation i guess...

COSXJFAN · 10-27-2009, 09:11 PM

Sorry bud!! That is the one "unbreakable" rule I have. You cheat, we're over, it's that simple. Been there, done that, wont do it again!! The only real advice I can offer is, pick up, and move on. She is not worth any more emotional input from you! HTH!! Best of luck!!

Defiance665 · 10-27-2009, 09:18 PM

Wonderful... Hope you find someone thats better to you. DO NOT take her back, no matter what she says/does...

REWSTER · 10-27-2009, 09:22 PM

ya cant hit a girl but you can smack the s**t out a b***h

glad ya got out that one girls like that will always be screwed up in the head

itsanxjthing · 10-27-2009, 09:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Defiance665

Wonderful... Hope you find someone thats better to you. DO NOT take her back, no matter what she says/does...

x2

drummerwookie · 10-27-2009, 11:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Defiance665

Wonderful... Hope you find someone thats better to you. DO NOT take her back, no matter what she says/does...

thanx guys...

and no, im not taking her back, ever..lol..like i said, ive got someone else now that things are looking up for. she loves to wheel, loves to camp under the stars, and anyone like that, is my kinda person

the one that cheated on me tho, before i found out this stuff, she did ask me if i thought i would ever be able to take her back, and i said no then too..lol...so there is no way in hell that would happen after this

im just hoping that, since she only lives a few doors down from my friends place who told me, i just hope that the next time i go there, she doesnt take a ball bat to either of my jeeps...but ill just cross that bridge if i get to it

Six-Pack Smile · 10-27-2009, 11:44 PM

thats hard, but were i come from girls that do that, get their ***** beat by my home girls.

MasterShakeXJ · 10-27-2009, 11:57 PM

ah nothin like a spiteful shiesty woman.

NewXJaddict · 10-28-2009, 12:25 AM

Drama FTW. Sorry to hear how all that had to go down for ya. I don't know that I have ever been cheated on (that I know of) But I did have one use me to get out of her parents house and such.....sucks for sure though.

nw-xj-scott · 10-28-2009, 12:31 AM

Life is so much better without these type of people. as hard as it may seem. suck it up and move on.

Its better for your own sanity!

JakeWI · 10-28-2009, 12:39 AM

been there. been cheated on but moved on. shes just a no good b- word. don't worry about it though. if she hits your jeep ever though, dont hit her, just run over her cavilier or whatever she has. simple.

spikeypuck · 10-28-2009, 07:14 AM

Just remember. Keep a cool head and stay out of jail.... I'ts really not as fun as t.v. makes it look...

ktmracer419 · 10-28-2009, 04:11 PM

never been with a crazy ***** but my rule is "one strike your out"

life is too short for drama, if she hits your jeep with a bat, that gives you an excuse to drag your body panels over some rocks to cover it up!

89eliminator · 10-28-2009, 04:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ktmracer419

life is too short for drama

BlueXJ · 10-28-2009, 11:47 PM

Just be glad you found out. You seem to have moved on and gotten a much better lady that enjoys what you do. Build your relationaship with the new lady and never even look back.

10-27-2009, 08:54 PM	#1
drummerwookie Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 833 My Photos	found out my ex-gf was cheating on me...fun stuff i just found out from a couple of my friends today, that she was cheating on me with my friends brother, the whole time we were going out... my friends told her she needed to say something to me or they were going to, and thats why she broke up with me, was just to get outa of telling me.... well, for some reason, ive been curious about it...we broke up a while ago, but shes my friends gf's friend... so most of the time when i hang out with my friend ans his GF, most of the time my ex is there too..i got on here a couple weeks ago for acting like a B$#@h towards me when all i was trying to do was be nice about things then i found out that this weekend, she was talking to the girl that im interested in now, behind my back, lying to her about what kinda BF i was and all this...my friends kicked her out for saying what she did about me, and lucky for me, this other girl doesnt believe her anyways well, i was nice enough to not say anything to her about that, i thought, well ill just not bring it up, but i told my friends i was done hanging around her and they understood and they said they didnt want to anyways for what she was saying about me.. so then i was over at their place today, and just had a feeling she cheated on me...so i asked them if they heard anything, and they told me the whole story..she cheated on me , yada, yada... and my friend was pissed at his brother bc it was with him she cheated... so i wasnt going to let this go...i got on her for it, and before i even told her in knew about her cheating, she came out with it anyway bc she thought it was just going to piss me off since i started in on here...but when she found out i already knew, she got pissed off and started calling me a D@*k and all this other crap, and is threatening to beat my a@# the next time im over at my friends place...lol...all bc i know about her little adventures i could not believe she would have the audassity to get pissed at me bc SHE cheated on me...talk about a screwed up person..and then she actually asked me who told me about it.... if it were the other way around, and i knew that she knew i was cheating on here, i sure as hell wouldnt have started chewing her out and then asking who told her...i woulda back peddled and hung up..lol.. anyways...just venting....i guess the next time i go to my friends house, either im going to have to worry about her wanting to fight me, bc i dont hit girls, not my style, or, have to worry about her hitting one of my jeeps with a base ball bat bc she knows how much i love my jeeps...all bc SHE cheated on ME... and i also found out from my friend that she texted this other girl that im interested in and told her she was to good for me..lol...and not to date me..but she just replied back by saying shes a big girl and can make her own decisions.. one heck of a situation i guess... __________________ 1993 XJ 2-door 5-speed 4.0 flowmaster 2004 WJ limited with 4.7 V8 2 inch lift with flowmaster

10-27-2009, 09:11 PM	#2
COSXJFAN BROWN CHICKEN, BROWN COW! Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Colorado Springs Posts: 5,780 My Photos 1987 Wagokee Year: 1987 Wagokee Engine: 4.0 Renny Transmission: AW-4 Transfer Case: NP 242 HD drive shaft Front Axle: HP non-C.A.D. Dana 30 w/ 4.88s (locked) Rear Axle: Dana 44 w/ 4.88s (locked) Tires: 33X12.5-15 Pro Comp MTs Lift Specifications: Hodgepodge 6.5 front 5.5 rear Misc Accessories: custom 2.5" exhaust, cold air intake, homebrew bumpers & armor, winch	Sorry bud!! That is the one "unbreakable" rule I have. You cheat, we're over, it's that simple. Been there, done that, wont do it again!! The only real advice I can offer is, pick up, and move on. She is not worth any more emotional input from you! HTH!! Best of luck!! __________________ STEELER FAN TIL DEATH!!! BAN OWNERS, NOT BREEDS!!! AMERICAN PIT BULL TERRIERS ARE GREAT PETS!!!

10-27-2009, 09:22 PM	#4
REWSTER CF Veteran Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: HAMMOND IN Posts: 2,095 My Photos 2000 Cherokee Year: 2000 Model: Cherokee Engine: 4.0 Transmission: Auto AW-4 Transfer Case: NP-231 Front Axle: D30 Rear Axle: CRY.8.25 Tires: Hankook MT 30" Lift Specifications: 3" RUSTYS LIFT Misc Accessories: NATE's 4X4 FRONT BUMPER,CB RADIO,REAR HITCH,ROOF BASKET,HOOD SPACERS,	ya cant hit a girl but you can smack the st out a bh glad ya got out that one girls like that will always be screwed up in the head __________________ Build thread------->http://www.cherokeeforum.com/f46/rew...j-build-11494/ A GOOD FRIEND WILL BAIL YOU OUT OF JAIL............ BUT A TRUE FRIEND WILL BE NEXT TO YOU SAYING DAMN WE SCREWED UP..........*

10-27-2009, 11:57 PM	#8
MasterShakeXJ CF Veteran Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: NOVA/Mo-town Posts: 1,212 My Photos 01 Cherokee Year: 01 Model: Cherokee Engine: 4.0L I6 Transmission: auto Transfer Case: NP 231 Front Axle: lp d30 Rear Axle: 8.25 Tires: bfg Lift Specifications: 3.5" RE	ah nothin like a spiteful shiesty woman. __________________ I'm a poor college student; now accepting donations for jeep parts '01 XJ. 3.5" RE lift. 31" BFG's. AA SYE w/ Tom Woods ds. JKS quick disco's, RE adj tracbar. fully welded exhaust w/ eastern cat & flowmaster super 44. cobra cb w/ wilson antenna. $50 roof rack with homemade brackets. custom made front bumper.

10-28-2009, 12:31 AM	#10
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10-27-2009, 09:18 PM	#3
Defiance665 CF Veteran Join Date: May 2009 Location: Michigan, 48657 Posts: 3,253 My Photos 1989 Cherokee Year: 1989 Model: Cherokee Engine: Renix 4.0 Transmission: AW4 Transfer Case: NP231 Front Axle: Dana 30 Vaccum Disconnect Rear Axle: Dana 35 Tires: 235/75/15 Lift Specifications: 4" rear, 3" front Misc Accessories: Baja Lights, Electric Fan Switch, Modified Vacuum Disconnect	Wonderful... Hope you find someone thats better to you. DO NOT take her back, no matter what she says/does...

10-27-2009, 11:44 PM	#7
Six-Pack Smile Seasoned Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Seattle Posts: 366 My Photos	thats hard, but were i come from girls that do that, get their ***** beat by my home girls.

10-28-2009, 12:25 AM	#9
NewXJaddict The Working Hermit Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: NC Posts: 4,152 My Photos 1987 Cherokee Year: 1987 Model: Cherokee Engine: 4.0 Transmission: The crappy one 10/5 Front Axle: D30 Rear Axle: D35 Lift Specifications: stock	Drama FTW. Sorry to hear how all that had to go down for ya. I don't know that I have ever been cheated on (that I know of) But I did have one use me to get out of her parents house and such.....sucks for sure though.

10-28-2009, 12:39 AM	#11
JakeWI CF Veteran Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 1,325 My Photos 1996 Cherokee Year: 1996 Model: Cherokee Engine: 4.0 HO Transmission: auto Transfer Case: 231 Front Axle: D30 Rear Axle: 8.25 Tires: 31x10.5 General Grabber AT2 Lift Specifications: 4.5 RC Misc Accessories: wisconsin plates :), RC quick discos, CB, Rock Crusher Diff. Covers, Tomken Gas Tank Skid, More	been there. been cheated on but moved on. shes just a no good b- word. don't worry about it though. if she hits your jeep ever though, dont hit her, just run over her cavilier or whatever she has. simple. __________________ 1993 Cherokee (R.I.P) 4.5 Rough Country 5speed 31x 10.5 x15 Dick Cepek Radial FC-II 1996 Cherokee/ 4.5 Rough Country/ 31" General Grabber AT2/ RockCrusher diff covers/ Tomken Gas Tank Skid/CB/ Steering box brace/ GTX hood vents/ Wisconsin Plates/soon to finish-homebrew rockrails and bumpers. Project Northwoods http://www.cherokeeforum.com/f46/project-northwoods-3541/

10-28-2009, 07:14 AM	#12
spikeypuck Oh, poo!!! Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 170 My Photos 1985 Cherokee Year: 1985 Model: Cherokee Engine: puny lil 4 cyld... 2,5 litres, I-4, carburettor Transmission: 4-Speed, Manual Transmission Transfer Case: part time transfer case Front Axle: dana 30 Rear Axle: dana 35 Tires: mickey thompson baja claw. 31's Lift Specifications: 3" rough country Misc Accessories: chopped. full roll cage, and brush guard on front. will be making my changes soon. i just got her	Just remember. Keep a cool head and stay out of jail.... I'ts really not as fun as t.v. makes it look... __________________ I told wifey i need a winch for christmas. So when I break down, I can use the light poles to get home..

10-28-2009, 04:11 PM	#13
ktmracer419 ::CF Moderator:: Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 1,998 My Photos	never been with a crazy ***** but my rule is "one strike your out" life is too short for drama, if she hits your jeep with a bat, that gives you an excuse to drag your body panels over some rocks to cover it up! __________________ www.SISoffroad.com

10-28-2009, 11:47 PM	#15
BlueXJ Renix Super Guru Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: In yourz postez fissin jurr spelinzs Posts: 18,067 My Photos 1990/1989 Cherokee Year: 1990/1989 Model: Cherokee Engine: 4.0L Renix Transmission: AW4/AX15 Transfer Case: NP242 Front Axle: Dana30 Rear Axle: 8.25 Chryco 29 spline Tires: 31 x 10.50 BFG KOs Lift Specifications: 3.5" Rubicon Express Misc Accessories: Homemade bumpers & MM Winch JKS Trackbar ZJ steering	Just be glad you found out. You seem to have moved on and gotten a much better lady that enjoys what you do. Build your relationaship with the new lady and never even look back. __________________ JEEP I bow to its almighty power which no mortal 4x4 can match. R.I.P. Zachman you will be missed. CF the friendly forum http://www.xjtalk.com/index.php www.ComancheClub.com CBW Member #69

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